No means NO!

[LindaBo]

What part of No! do guys don,t understand? http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/annoyed.gif My X well not stop calling me, and now i,m going to have to get mad at him and yell- LEAVE ME ALONE! http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/shout.gif he wanted to be friends,but even friends don,t ack like this.he still wants a relationship.I don,t get it, What part of No does he not understand? Is there any other way? My daughter went threw a break up and now it has cost her a broken window in her suv and $300.00 cash hidden in the car, and her personal items. WHY? Why do they to this? Is there any other way to break up? any ideas? or whats your story http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/idea3.gif

[beautiful_mess38]

Thats why I call mine sh*thead.

[Kahlua Kid]

Originally posted by LindaBo:
WHY? Why do they to this? Is there any other way to break up? any ideas? or whats your story http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/idea3.gif

I have no idea - I haven't broken up with anyone in over 19 years!

[CatdaBrat]

Was just talking about this sort of thing yesterday. It's my opinion that LOTS of men just can't stand the thought of the women in their past relationships moving on to become available to other men. It's as if they feel the women were (are) their possessions, their property, and the men are very jealous. It's sorta like the "If I can't have you, nobody can" thing.

The only hope I see for that situation is for the guys to find somebody new they can "possess." Gee, sorta sounds reminiscent of "The Exorcist."

[Yosemite Joy]

I dealt with this a lot from my ex husband.

He seemed to think that me moving on and being in a new relationship would somehow mess up "our" relationship when we got back together. But obviously I didn't love him, and I had moved on, and hadn't thought twice about it.

Bah.

[BGW]

Lindabo-
I hope this is not nor will become a safety issue. If you feel the least bit in danger, call the police.

[Patagoniamaniac]

Bad choice in men maybe?..we've all done it.. (ladies I mean)I've had some real losers, but that was because my choice in men in the past were..cocaine dealers, leachers, losers with no sense of direction and no respect for the opposite sex...My husband is a blessing to me and is all I could want in a guy..Hard working great morals and makes me laugh...still is a blessing after all these years even though he hacks loogies in the shower sometimes..but I'm over those pet peeves...I think.. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/sick.gif

[monkey]

Yep, I also went through the "bad boy" stage. I don't know what finally shifted in my head that allowed me to be loved by a good man, but I'm sure glad it did!

[Yosemite_Wolf]

Pata... yer telling us toooooooooo much about your Darling husband.. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/rofl5.gif

[beautiful_mess38]

Pata that was funny. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/rofl5.gif
Oh gosh "the bad boy stage" we all go through it.

but then again you learn once you find a good man. It finally dawn on you that how your treated is what counts the most.

[Patagoniamaniac]

Originally posted by Yosemite_Wolf:
Pata... yer telling us toooooooooo much about your Darling husband.. http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/rofl5.gif

oh my gosh..if he knew i wrote that about him for everyone in oakhurst to know..he'd be ticked.Now everytime you see him ..you'll be thinkin..yep thats the loogie hacker...maybe he blows his nose....thats sounds better than the other..LOL http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/laugh.gif
cmon...is he the only guy that does that..

[Yosemite_Wolf]

We won't tell him that you told http://oakhurstonline.com/icon/happy.gif