Is It OK To Sleep With Your Best Friends Ex?

[american]

If I found out my ex is now with my best friend, how should I feel about this?

In the following poll, 80% say it's wrong. What do you think?
http://www.blurtit.com/forandagainst/Is_It_Ok_To_Sleep_With_Your_Best_Friends_Ex

[yosemitewriter]

If this person is your EX, then why should you care? It's kinda like worrying about the used clothes you give to the thrift shop and who might be wearing them.


If I found out my ex is now with my best friend, how should I feel about this?

In the following poll, 80% say it's wrong. What do you think?
http://www.blurtit.com/forandagainst/Is_It_Ok_To_Sleep_With_Your_Best_Friends_Ex

[beautiful_mess38]

You can't control your friends and whom they choose to sleep with.
You can't control your ex's and whom they choose to sleep with.

My advice get over it.

[only1alphafemale]

I personally think this pole is silly, and uncalled for.

So what if a pole gives you some kind of answer thats not really a *real* issue, and will more than likely feed into other issues, and there wont be an unbiased response to it anyway.....however, thats JMO, and with that having been said....

The REAL issue, is how you allow things to effect you. If YOU allow them to become toxic and give them space to live inside of you? Then your the one one, who's ultimately betraying yourself.

[dancingqueen]

Do best friends really do that to each other? And could they ever really get over it? When we lived in Monterey my husbands secretary got a divorce. Her sister (they were only 16 months apart and very close almost like twins) started dating him. Even after that relationship broke up the girls were never the same. It was very hard to watch, it effected the entire family. I guess it would depend on how long ago the relationship broke up and how the best friend feels about it.

[jakobscalpel]

You'll want to vote yes on Prop 80: Eliminates Right of Best Friend and Ex Hooking Up

[Yosemite Joy]

You'll want to vote yes on Prop 80: Eliminates Right of Best Friend and Ex Hooking Up

I laughed. A little.

[Red Mule]

I laughed. OUT LOUD.

[Kim]

I married my ex's best friend. They are adults; they worked it out. That's what adults do.

[Mysteefied]

If this person is your EX, then why should you care? It's kinda like worrying about the used clothes you give to the thrift shop and who might be wearing them.

I agree 100% and if you do care, then its your issue, not thiers

[Mysteefied]

You'll want to vote yes on Prop 80: Eliminates Right of Best Friend and Ex Hooking Up

I laughed a lot~! giggle...still laughing